Embracing your shadows is actually very seductive. There is nothing more off putting than a guy who tries too hard to be accepted and liked by putting on a show of perfection.
It’s quite hard for men to show vulnerability to women because they have been conditioned to think that any show of weakness will send her running.
On the contrary, done in the right way, a woman seeing your vulnerability is actually very endearing and can help to build trust and affection.
What women don’t like is when men look for their mommy in her, or look for a savior for their wounds they haven’t healed themselves.
We love a man who can own up to his challenges and is actively working on them and unashamed to say so.
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