top of page
  • Writer's pictureScarlett Demy

"Because she competes with no one, no one can compete with her" -Lao Tzu

Double Entendre

When encountering jealousy, competitiveness and animosity in the realm of relationships the best one can do is not give the energy a force of resistance by engaging with it.

Similar to another passage in the Tao Te Ching that says “give evil nothing to oppose and it will disappear by itself,” (Mitchell) without resistance and opposition, energy cannot affect you.

When you are neutral, you are not in polarity, therefore not a magnetic match to whatever the opposite polarity is.

As the old masculine power structure falls away a more egalitarian system with more empowered women will arise. Women who have been heavily brainwashed through economic disempowerment and dependency on men to compete with one another for seemingly scarce resources will awaken to realize that men are plenty, resources are plenty and any ill harbored energy towards another feminine is like punching oneself in the mirror - she is just another aspect of you.

753 views0 comments

Recent Posts

See All

Sexuality as the South Node

“Why does toxic sex feel so good?” someone once asked me. … The person who you know isn’t good for you (they’re taken, abusive, manipulative, emotionally unavailable, etc). The sex that comes after a

Unlearning Learned Helplessness

In a deplorable experiment in 1967, researchers by the name of Martin Seligman and Steven Maier et al. decided to test some theories on classical conditioning. After incidentally discovering that cert

When to Resist Resistance

Sometimes what you might think is an intuitive nudge to avoid a situation or person could be the ego trying to keep you in fear and attachment. The intuition is a powerful and reliable compass with wh


bottom of page