The way you have #sex is the way you live your life. If your orgasms are rushed and hurried, your life is probably rushed and hurried. If you take the time to #enjoy sex and experience #pleasure then you probably do that in your life as well.
Shame and taboo around sexuality is unnatural. It only happened because #sexual#energy is so powerful that people became afraid. The more you embrace your sexuality, the more you will embrace your life.